Monday, March 26, 2007

THE BRIDAL SHOWER


CELEBRATE WITH CLOSE FRIENDS & FAMILY YOUR UPCOMING MARRIAGE
Traditionally the bridal shower was held to provide the bride-to-be with gifts to help her set up her new home. These days the majority of couples have already set up home and therefore the bridal shower is a great opportunity for family and friends to show their support for the next chapter in her life

The Main/Matron-of-Honour traditionally hosts the bridal shower. She should consult the bride when compiling the invitation list, however generally you invite female family members of the bride and groom mothers, grandmothers, aunts, cousins etc. She should also invite close female friends of the bride and the bride’s family.

TUPPERWARE PARTY
Tupperware is a must have for every kitchen, and if your bride is just starting out, this can be an excellent way to get her kitchen and pantry off to a flying start. Tupperware parties offer their hosts discounts and bonus gifts when your party has purchased items to a certain value. Coordinate this with your Tupperware Representative as they can suggest many themes for your party.

LINGERIE PARTY
These party’s are great fun. What an excellent way to get lovely new lingerie for your wedding night and honeymoon. There are many companies in town that offer lingerie party plans. They sell all sorts of items from teddy’s to battery operated toys. Maybe not quite the part that grandma or your great aunt would appreciate.

LINEN PARTY
Keeping up with you home linen requirements is ongoing. Get off to a great start by having a linen party. Choose a colour scheme and request your guests to purchase all sorts of linen in your chosen colours.

GARDEN PARTY
Is your bride a bit of a green thumb? An outdoor garden party might be just the thing. Encourage guests to purchase gifts for the garden. For small thankyou gifts you could give each of your guests a small packet of seeds which they could plant in the bride and grooms honour.

BRIDAL SHOWER TIPS
· Consider you brides interests & hobbies when deciding on your bridal shower party theme
· The maid of honour should record any gifts given to the bride to assist her later when it comes time to write the thankyou.
· Keep the guest list relatively small. The bridal shower should be an intimate affair
· Try to keep the bride from having no planning to do, as this day/night should be in her honour.


Jan Littlejohn
jan@ceremonieswithstyle.com.au
www.ceremonieswithstyle.com.au

Friday, February 9, 2007

Traditional Wedding Anniversary Symbols and Gift Guide


Here are the corresponding symbols and gifts for each Anniversary:

1st Wedding Anniversary -- paper

2nd Wedding Anniversary -- cotton

3rd Wedding Anniversary -- leather

4th Wedding Anniversary -- flowers or fruits

5th Wedding Anniversary -- wood

6th Wedding Anniversary -- sugar or candy

7th Wedding Anniversary -- wool

8th Wedding Anniversary -- bronze

9th Wedding Anniversary -- pottery

10th Wedding Anniversary -- tin

11th Wedding Anniversary -- steel

12th Wedding Anniversary -- linen or silk

13th Wedding Anniversary -- lace

14th Wedding Anniversary -- agate

15th Wedding Anniversary -- crystal

16th Wedding Anniversary -- silver hollowware, peridot

17th Wedding Anniversary -- furniture, watches

18th Wedding Anniversary -- porcelain, cat’s-eye

19th Wedding Anniversary -- bronze, aquamarine

20th Wedding Anniversary -- china

21st Wedding Anniversary -- brass or nickel

22nd Wedding Anniversary -- copper

23rd Wedding Anniversary -- silver plate

24th Wedding Anniversary -- musical instruments

25th Wedding Anniversary -- silver

26th Wedding Anniversary -- original pictures

27th Wedding Anniversary -- sculpture

28th Wedding Anniversary -- orchids

29th Wedding Anniversary -- new furniture

30th Wedding Anniversary -- pearl

31st Wedding Anniversary -- timepieces

32nd Wedding Anniversary --conveyances (including automobiles)

33rd Wedding Anniversary -- amethyst

34th Wedding Anniversary -- opal

35th Wedding Anniversary -- coral or jade

36th Wedding Anniversary -- bone china

37th Wedding Anniversary -- alabaster

38th Wedding Anniversary -- beryl and tourmaline

39th Wedding Anniversary -- lace

40th Wedding Anniversary -- ruby or garnet

41st Wedding Anniversary -- land

42nd Wedding Anniversary -- improved real estate

43rd Wedding Anniversary -- trips

44th Wedding Anniversary -- groceries

45th Wedding Anniversary -- sapphire

50th Wedding Anniversary -- gold

55th Wedding Anniversary -- emerald or turquoise

60th Wedding Anniversary -- diamond

65th Wedding Anniversary -- diamond

70th Wedding Anniversary -- platinum

75th Wedding Anniversary -- diamond
And just as an endnote . . . .
Gentlemen . . . . if you are never quite sure . . . . Diamonds are appropriate any year!!!!

Jan Littlejohn